Opera Mythconception #3: It’s too stuffy

From Viking helmets to bank-breaking ticket prices, preconceived notions about opera have long deterred large swaths of the public from going anywhere near the art form. It’s a shame, since most of these myths and misconceptions—these “mythconceptions,” if you will—couldn’t be further from the truth. In this series, we debunk five of the most persistent ones and show why opera today is as comprehensible, delectable, accessible, and affordable as it’s ever been in its 400-year history. 

This is part 3 of a 5-part series. We're also debunking other mythconceptions, from opera being hard to understand, to it being boring, too long, and too expensive.

This is another stereotype perpetuated by media. You might picture sour-faced society ladies decked in their ermine and pearls accompanied by tuxedoed husbands who scowl at you for stifling a sneeze during the overture. While it’s true that there’s basic audience etiquette to be aware of (your neighbors won’t appreciate you texting or talking through an aria), opera is no longer the stiff, elitist club it may once have been.  

Some patrons might choose to dress in black-tie for the opening-night gala. But for the most part, people wear what they want—typically something that’s stylish but comfortable enough to sit in for a few hours. Heck, I once saw a woman wearing a dress with a picture of a turtle and the word “BAHAMAS” printed on it. So apparently, most anything goes at this point. 

Gone, too, are the days when refreshments were forbidden in the theater. The bartenders at the Wortham will offer to pour your drink in a covered cup that you’re welcome to bring into the auditorium. There’s nothing more glorious than sipping a bourbon as the HGO Chorus sings a rousing drinking song onstage.

 In other words, opera has loosened up quite a bit—we promise. To encourage new audiences to give opera a try, HGO hosts special themed nights throughout the season, including Under 40 Fridays, Pride Night, and Military Appreciation Day. These occasions feature opportunities for you to mix and mingle with like-minded individuals. You should always feel like you belong at the opera—because you do.